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mosc
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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 10:04 am Post subject:
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Our favorite Almighty Links Editor, Carlo, AKA Seraph, is back after an absence of several weeks. He and his wife went to The Ukrain to adapt a beautiful little boy.
Seraph in another topic wrote: | The reason of my absence is here: me and my wife just adopted IARIK a beautiful, Brasilian looking, Ukrainian boy. A very sweet and apparently bright young fellow (4 and a half years old)!
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Yes, very fantastic!
Carlo, we missed you. This place isn't the same when you are away. Congratulations to you and your wife, and to Iarik. Welcome back! |
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seraph
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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 11:29 am Post subject:
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THX Almighty Howard
you embarrass me
it has been a great adventure but having to deal with the cyrillic alphabet is a pain
just to give you an idea: the city where Iarik was born is Kharkov that in cyrillic is written: XAPKIB (btw that alphabet has 33 characters!).
You should see all those kids on the orphanage calling us: "mama, papa" an heartbreaking experience  _________________ homepage - blog - forum - youtube
Quote: | Don't die with your music still in you - Wayne Dyer |
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paul e.

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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 2:07 pm Post subject:
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that is a beautiful thing..
maybe this should be moved to the 'how to get inspiration' thread
really that is wonderful.. i hope to be able to do such an unselfish thing when i am a little older/wiser _________________ Spiral Recordings |
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Cyxeris

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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 2:36 pm Post subject:
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And here I thought you were simply on some pleasure cruise vacation or something. Never underestemate the intentions of artists. How is he liking his new life? This is most interesting.  _________________ ∆ Cyx ∆
"Yeah right, who's the only one here who knows secret illegal ninja moves from the government?"
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seraph
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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 2:55 pm Post subject:
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Cyxeris wrote: | How is he liking his new life? This is most interesting.  |
I am sorry to say that my son Iarik is still in the same Ukrainian orphanage where we found him because Italian bureaucracy does not allow me to bring him here sooner than 30 days after the judgement of the Ukrainian court (I do not know if I am making myself clear).
Bureaucracy can be very cruel.
How can you explain something like that to a 4 year old kid
We'll have to go back there next month to pick him up  _________________ homepage - blog - forum - youtube
Quote: | Don't die with your music still in you - Wayne Dyer |
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Cyxeris

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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 3:14 pm Post subject:
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Well, you do what you can. What else can you do?
How did you find him, if you dont mind my inquiry? _________________ ∆ Cyx ∆
"Yeah right, who's the only one here who knows secret illegal ninja moves from the government?"
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seraph
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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 3:32 pm Post subject:
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Cyxeris wrote: | How did you find him, if you dont mind my inquiry? |
I do not mind at all but it's a very long story that started more than two years ago. We had to get a "parenting licence" and that made me think that if anyone wanting a child had to get scrutinized the way we were, humankind would be on the verge of extinction. Unfortunately for many poor countries orphans are an hot export item toward the rich western countries. It's a strange feeling to go to a country where you are considered rich (when, according to your country's standard of living, you are not).
Anyway, I do not know who found who but our paths crossed (apparently unexpectedly) and will be closely intertwined for as long as possible  _________________ homepage - blog - forum - youtube
Quote: | Don't die with your music still in you - Wayne Dyer |
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Cyxeris

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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 4:08 pm Post subject:
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Well, I can appreciate the extensive scrutiny from the standpoint of protecting the child's safety and well-being. There is an ugly black-market of children out there. _________________ ∆ Cyx ∆
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seraph
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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 4:24 pm Post subject:
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You are right but my experience tells me that the main concern of bureaucrats is to feed bureaucracy itself, everything else is secondary (child's safety and well-being included).
Do you think I am way too cynic  _________________ homepage - blog - forum - youtube
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Cyxeris

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Posted: Mon Mar 08, 2004 8:08 pm Post subject:
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No, not at all. You are right. There are usually a number of reasons for a particular circumstance. The protection of children, in this case, is the valid one. Beurocracy is generally invalid. _________________ ∆ Cyx ∆
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seraph
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Posted: Tue Mar 09, 2004 3:55 am Post subject:
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sudden wrote: | that is a beautiful thing.... i hope to be able to do such an unselfish thing when i am a little older/wiser |
THX Sudden
it's a beautiful thing for sure but not necessarily unselfish, I would call it "positively selfish" because while we give Iarik the love he deserves, he's the son we could not have  _________________ homepage - blog - forum - youtube
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Cyxeris

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Posted: Tue Mar 09, 2004 3:59 am Post subject:
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I would simply call it positive, as it is certainly as benneficial to him as it is to you, if not moreso. Look at it from his perspective. _________________ ∆ Cyx ∆
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paul e.

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Posted: Thu Apr 01, 2004 3:33 pm Post subject:
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seraph wrote: | Cyxeris wrote: | How is he liking his new life? This is most interesting.  |
I am sorry to say that my son Iarik is still in the same Ukrainian orphanage where we found him because Italian bureaucracy does not allow me to bring him here sooner than 30 days after the judgement of the Ukrainian court (I do not know if I am making myself clear).
Bureaucracy can be very cruel.
How can you explain something like that to a 4 year old kid
We'll have to go back there next month to pick him up  |
seraph, you must be nearing the date that you are united with Iarik.. how is everything going....  _________________ Spiral Recordings |
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seraph
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Posted: Thu Apr 01, 2004 11:36 pm Post subject:
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sudden wrote: | seraph, you must be nearing the date that you are united with Iarik.. how is everything going....  |
thanks for asking I hope to be able to go back there to pick him up within the end of this month. Afterward my life will never be the same  _________________ homepage - blog - forum - youtube
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paul e.

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jkn

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Posted: Fri Apr 02, 2004 7:29 am Post subject:
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Wow, Carlo - that is really great.
My manager and his wife adopted their child from Columbia - some similar issues and then the trip their to get her from the orphanage was an adventure in itself - crossing through some very dangerous areas. |
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